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How Gratitude Puts Life in Perspective
Snow day in St. Louis yesterday = a practice in gratitude. I will confess that gratitude was not my first instinct upon hearing the news. No, Step One was resisting the urge to scream into my pillow. Step Two was to post something kinda snotty in a FB group for fellow…
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You So Got This
I was working earlier on a big project, one that’s taking me out of my comfort zone. The deadline is charging fast and I’m freaking out more than a little. Sitting at my desk, I noticed that my left leg was bouncing like one of those old-school paddle board balls…
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Courage or the Comfort Zone – What’ll It Be?
I bought a computer yesterday. Brand spankin’ new, for the first time ever, because I’d always had either a work-issued model or a hand-me-down. (Also, because I’m a notorious tightwad, not to mention a Luddite.) I had a long debate with the voices in my head before deciding what to…
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New Year’s Resolutions: A Blank Canvas for Your Masterpiece
It may not surprise you to know I’m someone who LOVES making New Year’s resolutions. I look forward to the process each and every year. I actually get GIDDY about it. There’s something about the inherent possibility of a blank canvas that gives me hope. I see it just waiting…
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Staying True To Your Changed Self – Even If Others Take It Personally
“YOU’VE CHANGED.” Ever heard that one before? Sometimes people notice the way you’ve shifted things in your life and they mean that as a compliment – although, just as often, they mean something different. Important people in your life may, for whatever reason, hold on to the “old” you. Perhaps…
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When Anxiety Strikes… Don’t Stay in Bed
Man, I did not want to go to that party last night. But I’m so glad I did. The funny thing is that I’d wanted to go. I arranged for a babysitter the day the invitation came. Bought a fun new shirt. Even got out my high heels, for chrissakes….
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Yes, You Can
One of the most fundamental and impactful disservices we do to ourselves is when we allow “I can’t” to be our default response. It’s this kind of automatic negative thinking that prevents us from knowing how we really feel about things. It limits our choices. It disconnects us from our…
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What’s Your Amazing Talent?
Just wrapped up a week of housesitting for a friend while he took his family to Disney World. He thought I was doing him a favor by staying there, when the truth was that I got five nights alone in a Tempur-Pedic bed – not to mention the world’s largest…
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Leaping Into Your New Reality
I don’t know when this happened, but here it is Oct. 18. Last time I checked, it was July… and, the time before that, January. Time feels like it’s moving at an unfathomable speed; weeks seem to flutter by before I’ve even had the chance to greet them. I used…
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