I’m Becky.

But the most important thing about me is that I am made of stardust – and I believe you are, too.

Becky

If there’s one question that stumps me, it’s this: “What do you do for a living?” The answer was much easier in the old days when I worked in newspapers, political campaigns, and PR.

If you want an “elevator pitch,” I’ll tell you I’m an empowerment writer, teacher, and speaker, and founder of You Are Not Stuck®.

But that’s starting pretty far into the story. That’s the how I do what I do.

What lives beneath is the what, which is the way I describe my actual work of helping people identify and create the life that is calling to them.

In that way, I’m a soul whisperer. A dream doula. A change catalyst. I’m a guide into the questions for which only you have answers. Poet David Whyte refers to these inquiries as “questions that can make or unmake a life… questions that have no right to go away.” I see the divine badass in you, charm it out, and cheer it on.

The most important part of the story, though, is the why. Why is this work of empowerment what I’m called to do? The answer to that is simple:

I’ve lived a life that looked good on the outside but felt horrible on the inside.

I’ve lived a life that I didn’t feel authorized to change.

I’ve lived a life that I felt hopelessly stuck… and once I found freedom, I made it my mission to help others find it, too.

Please know this: You are not intended to spend this life squeezed and choked and squashed in a vise of Other People’s design, or values that aren’t your own, or an outdated world view; no, you were made for discernment, cultivation, and expansion.

Lines are not meant to be toed, they are meant to be moved and redrawn and colored in and erased until they suit you—and you can do that as many times as you like.

They’re your lines, after all.

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Many years ago, I had the idea of creating an annual affirmation project for the month of May, which I would call... wait for it... affirMAYtions. (Tee hee.)

Only trouble is, I usually remember the idea around, oh, April 29.

But not this year! I actually remembered in March!

So it is my great pleasure to invite you to join me for 31 days of reflection, affirmation, and encouragement – delivered right to your inbox each morning, beginning May 1.

Each e-mail will be a love letter of sorts, my wishes and hope for you on a series of topics. You can sit with the messages any time of day you’re compelled to get contemplative, whether that’s when you first wake up, during the quiet of the evening, or for a much-needed midday break.

I'll drop a link in the comments if you'd like to join in. 🌸
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Many years ago, I had the idea of creating an annual affirmation project for the month of May, which I would call... wait for it... affirMAYtions. (Tee hee.) 

Only trouble is, I usually remember the idea around, oh, April 29.

But not this year! I actually remembered in March! 

So it is my great pleasure to invite you to join me for 31 days of reflection, affirmation, and encouragement – delivered right to your inbox each morning, beginning May 1. 

Each e-mail will be a love letter of sorts, my wishes and hope for you on a series of topics. You can sit with the messages any time of day you’re compelled to get contemplative, whether that’s when you first wake up, during the quiet of the evening, or for a much-needed midday break. 

Ill drop a link in the comments if youd like to join in. 🌸

Overheard recently, on the importance of mindfully slowing down before you crash:

“Cars need gas AND brakes.”

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